About myself and my ideal match:
You know, I did not dare to go to this site for a long time. Everything seemed - well, why, still fine, I cope myself. A friend persuaded for six months. She said: "Olena, you deserve happiness, not just stability."
I'll be honest why one. The marriage did not end with a scandal or treason, it just ran out of steam quietly. We became strangers under one roof. Polite, correct, but absolutely alien. And at some point I realized - honest loneliness is better than a beautiful lie together.
The divorce was hard, not because she loved, but because the whole world that she had been building for years was crumbling.
Books are my personal portal to other worlds. I love evenings when you can wrap yourself in a blanket, take an interesting book and just fall out of reality for several hours. It's my little luxury.
The series "Billions" is a separate love. The psychology of power, complex characters, moral dilemmas - exactly what makes you think after watching.
Cooking for me is meditation. I cook Ukrainian borscht so that the neighbors sniff. Italian lasagna, French croissants - something always smells delicious in my kitchen. Cooking calms and returns at the moment better than any therapy.
After all the experience, I know very well what I want. Not a list of requirements - just a feeling. I want a man next to whom you can be silent and at the same time feel warm. Who is not afraid of depth - neither in conversation nor in feelings.
Intelligence is important to me - not positions and regalia, but a living mind. The ability to hear between the lines, to understand without unnecessary words. I want a man who respects other people's borders in the same way as his own - without pressure, without manipulation, without games.
After the quiet breakdown of my marriage, I need a living, real connection. Where there is tenderness, and honesty, and space for everyone. Where you can be vulnerable and still feel protected.